What Impact Will Moderate or Severe TBI Have on a Person's Life?

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What Impact Will Moderate or Severe TBI Have on a Person's Life?

The effects of moderate to severe TBI can be long lasting or even permanent. While recovery and rehabilitation are possible, most people with moderate to severe TBI face life challenges that will require them to adapt and adjust to a new reality.

Moderate to severe TBI can cause permanent physical or mental disability. Because polytrauma is common with moderate to severe TBI, many patients face additional disabilities as a result of other injuries. Even patients who appear to recover fully may have some long-term symptoms that never go away.

Challenges with work and completing tasks that were once routine can be much more difficult than before the injury. Some patients find that the skills and abilities that they used before the injury to meet these challenges are not as sharp as they once were.

These ongoing challenges can also affect the patient’s personal life. People who have experienced brain injuries may take longer to do cognitive or “thinking” tasks associated with memory, such as coming up with the correct change in the checkout line at the grocery store or placing an order at a restaurant. Family relationships will almost certainly change, and in some cases the patient will be totally dependent on their caregivers.

Despite the advances in early diagnosis and treatment of moderate to severe TBI, the fact remains that traumatic brain injury will be a life-changing experience for many patients. Helping the patient, family members, and caregivers to cope with these long-term consequences is an important part of TBI rehabilitation.

Motor Deficits and Disabilities

For many patients, the damage to the brain resulting from a moderate to severe TBI may lead to life-long disabilities or motor deficits. The term disability in relationship to TBI means a loss of physical or mental function caused by damage to the brain. Motor deficits refer specifically to the effect of damage on motor skills or movement.

Examples of disabilities and motor deficits caused by moderate to severe TBI include:

  • Paralysis
  • Spasticity (muscle stiffness) or uncontrolled movements
  • Problems walking, talking, or swallowing
  • Difficulty carrying or moving objects
  • Vision problems
  • Loss of fine motor skills, such as buttoning a shirt
  • Inability to recognize something based on touch
  • Difficulty thinking and remembering
  • Difficulty with social relationships

Other challenges that a patient with moderate or severe TBI may experience include:

  • Difficulty making and keeping personal and professional relationships
  • Difficulty being part of social activities
  • Difficulty taking part in recreational or leisure activities
  • The decreased ability or inability to keep a job or go to school

During the rehabilitation and transition phases of TBI treatment, members of the healthcare team will provide information to the patient and their family members about dealing with these issues. Specific tools and coping strategies will be suggested. Examples of coping strategies and tools include:

  • Writing a detailed list of steps needed to complete a task
  • Using prompts or visual aids to help remember things
  • Using assistive devices to move around, such as a walker or a wheelchair

Learning new ways to do things is a very important part of recovery.

Other Potential Effects

The long-term symptoms of TBI can be divided into several categories, including physical changes, cognitive effects, sensory effects, perceptual effects, social-emotional changes, and others. You’ll find a partial list of these symptoms and possible effects below. Keep in mind that the severity and duration of symptoms and effects will vary greatly from one patient to another, depending on the severity of the TBI.

Physical effects

  • Sleep disorders
  • Loss of stamina (easily fatigued)
  • Appetite changes
  • Difficulty swallowing
  • Physical paralysis or spasticity
  • Chronic pain
  • Loss of control of bowel and bladder functions
  • Seizures
  • Difficulty regulating body temperature
  • Hormonal changes

Cognitive effects

  • Difficulty with attention, focus, or concentration
  • Distractibility
  • Memory problems
  • Slow speed of processing
  • Confusion
  • Perseveration, which is the abnormal persistent repetition of a word, gesture, or act
  • Impulsiveness
  • Difficulty with language processing
  • Problems with executive functions, which include planning, cognitive flexibility, abstract thinking, rule acquisition (determining right from wrong), initiating appropriate actions, and inhibiting inappropriate actions

Speech and language effects

  • Aphasia (difficulty with talking or expressing ideas, understanding everyday language, and problems with reading and writing). Types of aphasia can include:
    • Receptive aphasia, which involves difficulty understanding the spoken word, or
    • Expressive aphasia, which means the patient knows what they wish to say but is unable to get the words out. In some cases, the patient is able to perceive and comprehend both spoken and written language, but is unable to repeat what they see or hear.
  • Slurred speech
  • Speaking very fast or very slow
  • Problems with reading comprehension

Sensory and perceptual effects

  • Difficulty recognizing and distinguishing between touch and pressure sensations
  • Difficulty perceiving temperature
  • Difficulty perceiving movement and positions of the arms and legs
  • Difficulty with fine discrimination (for example, distinguishing between small everyday objects, like coins)
  • Difficulty integrating and understanding information gained through the five senses (sight, smell, touch, hearing, and taste)

Effects on vision

  • Partial or total loss of vision
  • Diplopia, which is weakness of eye muscles that causes double vision
  • Blurred vision
  • Problems judging distance
  • Involuntary eye movements, called nystagmus
  • Photophobia, which is intolerance of light

Effects on hearing

  • Decrease or loss of hearing
  • Tinnitus, which is ringing in the ears
  • Increased sensitivity or intolerance to sounds

Effects on smell and taste

  • Anosmia, which is loss of or diminished sense of smell
  • Loss of or diminished sense of taste
  • Bad taste in the mouth

Social-emotional or behavioral effects

  • Dependent behaviors
  • Fluctuating emotions
  • Lack of motivation
  • Irritability
  • Aggression
  • Depression
  • Lack of inhibition
  • Denial or lack of awareness
Posted on BrainLine August 9, 2018. Reviewed March 28, 2019.

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Comments (464)

i was hit by 4wd in 1981 7 yrs old unconscious for around 2 months head trauma left side above ear 27 stitches skull fracture intravenous drip incerted in gutter buy old school doc due to loss of blood he saved my life other injuries to body as well. multiple concussions since. now 45 i tick most of symptons on lists . aggression concerns me most im not violent but i get angry really fast (lose my s***) for no reason i know im doing wrong but i cant stop it its not fair on my loved ones I don't understand so how can they all they see is angry pat. but really im scared s***less. thank you

Greetings. I have a boyfriend suffering from tbi and doctors estimated him to live till November. Will it be true? Can he survive? What can I do for him?

I suffered from a TBI in the beginning of 2006 due to a car crash that killed my friend and put me in a coma for 2 months. i'm blessed to even talk about it today,(13 years later) because the doctors at North-Western Hospital thought I would die overnight or be a vegetable. I'm here to say the devil is a lie. I'm working a great job at Costco as of now(7 years) and was working at Schwab Rehabilitation Hospital(5 years) after I completed rehab. I have a wonderful woman who accepts me for me and tries to smooth out the few flaws i may have. I have plans to make her my wife and live happy ever after a T.B.I. I'm sharing my story because maybe it will give someone else with or without a T.B.I. motivation to keep pushing in life.
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Hullo, My daughter who is now 34yrs old had a horrific car accident when she was 16yrs old. Skull laceration and her whole face was squashed, could not see her eyes. It was a terrifiying time as the ambulance people did not think that she would survive, her whole scalp was torn off. She also broke a vertebrae in her back. Since this accident she suffers from schyzophrenia, headaches, hallucinations etc. I did not realise that this could of been brought on by her accident. I need some advice and help as she cannot keep a job for long, cannot sustain or have any relationships and is generally struggling with everyday living. I need some help and guidance please

If I could get any ideas on where to get my loved one help it would be greatly appreciated. He is 47 and in a tailspin on his way to hurting himself or someone else or both. He was in the many and intoxicated and jumped or fell from a 3rd story balcony and broke his face and his femur. He was in a coma for at least over a month. Once he was released from hospital he was given an honorable discharge from the navy with no help or benefits from that point on. He was not mentally stable enough to realize this for at least a couple of years down the road. This all happened in 1995. He has such behavural problens steming from the tbi no one wants to give him the time of day let alone help him. I see it up close later as he realizes hiw bad his behavior becomes it makes him so depressed and antisocial. Through my own stuggles I have had a therapist and u have repeatedly asked about special counselors who may be trained to deal with this problem. So far no help. So his tbi long teem effect is whats keeping him from getting helo with his long term tbi effect. Ita getting worse by the minute. He has a warped perception of everyone and everything. Are there any places that could maybe help him out????? He has a huge heart but a lot of times he doesn't know that. Thanks to everyone for sharing their stories and struggles.

Last week I was assaulted by a perfect stranger at a busy intersection. He first struck me on the temple with what I percieved to be a heavy handled walking stick. It peened me directly on the top of my left temple hard. A small indentation smaller then a quarter. Aside from the kneeing to the upper abdominal are, kicking at my knees , hit to the chin and assorted other defensive wounds I survived. I was stunned at the first hit to the head, have amnesia of the actual incident. Did not loose pass out but was still standing in the same place for 10 min without moving or being communicative. When I came to reality I was in the still in the intersection, moved off to the side feeling no pain till 8 hrs later. I did not go to ER. I did see my family Dr 3 days later as my judgement became increasingly unstable, with nausea and dizziness. He wants me to have a CT scan in two days as I am in a rural area. I am not sure about doing that as this is after the fact by a week. I am not thrilled about being radiated 500 times more then the usual xRay to my head and eye area as those scans do not detect concussion. I am 63 years old , own my own small business and this incident is financially burdening me as I cannot focus to do my job. 3 hrs is the most I can tolerate. From what I read here I need to learn to adjust to the side affects of the assault.

At age 8, I absorbed a traumatic brain injury when a football-size rock hit the top of my head. The whole incident was swept under the rug by my family. Needless to say, I have been creating my own rehab and winging it for about 48 years. Twenty-plus years of military life did wonders and was very instrumental in the direction I am now on. I am currently working on a book that details my experiences and findings. A number of TBI aspects are controversial and grossly misunderstood by societies all over. This book, projected to be a fifty-year chronicle, will be therapeutically beneficial to myself and others, God willing.

Grossly misunderstood! The more I learn, the more I'm realizing how interconnected all of these difficulties are that my loved one with a tbi has been having. We have been pushed in several different directions, and no providers we've worked with seems to understand the intricacies of tbi and how it impacts a person's mind/body. I'm sorry you had to experience that alone. Even after just a year of being with my partner and seeing people minimize and misunderstand his experience has been so frustrating. You must be a highly resilient individual to overcome all of this on your own. Thank God for the military and how it has helped you. I wish you all the best. I'm sure your book help many others. xx

In 2002 I suffered a TBI due to an car accident (Frontal Lobe Damage). I had to be helicopter flown to the ER. I don't even remeber the accident I just go by the accounts of the other passengers (my family members). Anyways after the accident all I remember is waking up in the hospital a few days later smh. I thought i was in a dream/nightmare so I tried to escape the hospital but my pelvis was broken so i just fell to the floor lol. Fast foward I went through rehab and all of that and recovered fine supposedly. I hadn't been to a doctor since like 2003 and it is now 2019 and i feel like shit!! I can't even work due to the headaches, social anxiety, I even fear coming outside sometimes. You're probably wondering, "well why haven't he been to a doctor?..". Its because I truly fear hospital scenarios, doctors offices and the likes. Also I have no health insurance so what am I to do? I applied for disability but due to lack of evidence they denied me of course. I havent worked since Oct 2018 and I'm feeling like I am about to give up on life. I love working I'm only 30 yrs old, but it seems impossible with the anxiety, depression, memory loss blah blah blah. May The Most High bless us all!! We are troopers SURVIVORS!!

My husband had a TBI several years ago. Now he is experiencing many problems that he has not be having. One thing I have noticed is that pain meds, certain supplements such as weight loss and bodybuilding, and energy drink really affect him adversely. It's so bad that I can stand living with him. I have tried in vain to find any studies done of this. I have had to fight with him over and over to get him to not take these things. He will be turning 70 soon. Any comments appreciated.

Debbie, I totally understand where you are coming from. We had this problem as well. Started with a 2 yr Vicodin prescription, convinced him that it was NOT helping, he's been experimenting with "natural" treatments ever since. Everything seems to make things worse, when I call for a total detox because it is unbearable, I am told that I"don't understand". I have nothing but sympathy for all those living with TBI, and I try to be supportive, but it is so hard on those of us who are living with someone who is living with TBI.

Hi im currently 27 y/o male sustained a TBI at the age of 18 june of 2010 and now years after im having memory problems severe dificulty with trying to get my life in order manage money bank account ect. I do admit im also a late bloomer in life i realize that its not to late at my age to start my life and work a job but the problem is i feel mentally limited i sound and act normal disability is saying they dont see a problem( calling me a liar pretty much) but my neuropsych said im not and i know it my memory has gone to crap my emotions are all out of whack and my ability to manage things like a normal person has gone to crap. i woke up in august of 2016 cant remember the exact day but thats when everything went all downhill for me short term memory is there its not what it use to be my long term memory seems like its messed up latley im so down about not being able to be on my own i feel as if maybe i need to be dependant on someone to help me manage my life i cant take this please someone tell me what do i do. i left out what happened sorry i had jumped off the back of a car at like 35 mph and fractured my skull my brain hit the side of my skull i ruptured a main arterie on my brain and had a subdural hematomo shifted my brain lining of my brain was swollen had little to no side effects at all after the accident thank God but now i have these issues years later? i just want an accurate diagnosis i strongly believe there is something more to this than just memory loss. my neuropsych said its complications from the brain injury i got i dont know what to do my parents aren't in good health i dont have long untill maybe they perish i have to get it together the thing is i feel so limited in my abiltys now to the point where its interfearing with my everyday life what do i do. Sorry if this is to long.

Hi! When I was 5 years old I was accidentally struck in the head with a garden hoe. I was bleeding really bad and was admitted for 3 days. I received multiple stitches and now (23) I don't feel I have had any noticeable problems maybe because I have lived with them my whole life? I do have light sensitivity and have to put all of my electronics on night shift mode as well as wearing sunglasses on a cloudy day. I think I got roughly 30 stitches but I don't know if this would be considered a moderate TBI or severe? I also ran face first into a corner of a wall and passed out resulting in 7 stitches. Thank you!!

Another motorcycle accident here
2 frontal lobe bleeders, accident 2 years ago , severe loss of consciousness. I am scared to death, short term memory gone, I was a construction superintendent, and I went back to work, n
But it got worse. Vertigo, frigging memory, stuttering.. Dr said it was a severe head injury when I say head injry. Getting EEG THIS week. Y
The headaches are worse.
Does this get worse over time, Dr says we wait for tests. What can I do to make it better.

You know I love you with ALL my heart and You will make it through this. Love you Bro!

Its ok. How old were you when this happened? I am 34 years old right now. I was 31 when this happened to me. I was on my way to work on friday january 13th when this happened? I was involved in a horrible car accident that almost killed me when some woman tried to pass 2 cars and hit me on a farm to market road. What I'm trying to get at is the good better best rule. Good better best, never let it rest until the good is better and the better becomes best. Try to remember something that happened throughout the day and write it down so you can have help remembering it. Then later try to remember it. If you cant then you have something to go back and look at that will jog your memory. Do that every day until that becomes a habit.

its been 6 years from that day, the headache and vertigo and paresthesia is always there, maintained, not intensifying or slowing down, my doc, gave me some pain relievers(paradrin forte) it helped a bit specially at bedtime.

find a neuropsychologist that accepts your insurance then get a Qeeg of the brain-3D imagery-get neurofeedback and buy a alpha stim

Rick, I was thrown thru the windshield of an 18 wheeler - head first - in 1992 when I was 25 years old. I wasn't wearing my seatbelt. I fractured T1 & T2 of my spine as well. A helicopter came out, landed in the median & rushed me to the hospital. THAT ONE EVENT, the chopper picking me up, is why I can walk, talk & LIVE today. When a head injury occurs - you have just MINUTES to get the patient to a hospital or to a physician before permanent severe damage or even death happens. I have been seeing one of the FINEST Neurologists in the world for over a decade in Atlanta, GA. I brought up the subject of severe migraines to him directly several years ago. His reply was "they will NEVER go away - and may even worsen." When I asked what I could do - he simply recommended keeping Advil on hand. I will tell you this, from someone raised on strict nutrition regimes, low sodium in your body will only contribute to migraines. As an added frustration - my anti seizure meds absorb the sodium out of my body as an unavoidable side effect of the drug. So. I take the small 10 mg Allergy Relief sinus tablets twice a day. One in morning and one in evening. They TRULY help decrease my migraines. Also, try to maintain an above average consumption of salt in your diet - unless you have other health issues that would be endangered due to increased sodium. Trust me. This regime will decrease your migraines. Has worked for me for over 10 years. Do I still get a migraine here or there? Absolutely .... but I simply try to blame my girlfriend for that. *smile* Just so you know, I have SEVERE short term memory (which will never be cured and I have learned to deal with). I am always exhausted and tired. I am your "model" TBI survivor. Better known as "The Walking Wounded" ....... In a mall or at a ballgame - no one knows I am permanently disabled .....

My story is different, but with the same result.

motorcycle accident here, back in march 15, 2013, i got into a motorcycle accident, was a normal day to say the least, that afternoon, decided to go out with my friends on a little motocross practice, i got on my motorcycle and went a few laps, on the last lap, after going over the finish line jump, i slowed down and took off my helmet and went back to my teams area, then suddenly my bike slid, went off balance, my head hit a rock, went straight to coma 10 days, but i dont remember any of those, my friends told me about what happened and when i woke up, i dont know anything, even for the next 4 months, ive got pharesthesia on my right leg, sold my motorcycles since i cant take it anymore, lost my balance, mild vertigo 24/7, but i go to the gym sometimes and i bought a few gym equips here at home. i said that to myself too, i wont stop, keep pushing forward. been having occasional headaches, vertigo always there, there are times its a bit more stronger than usual, but amid all this, i thank GOD im still here, alive and breathing.

I had a Tbi 12 yrs ago and have had 10 years of happy healthy living with no symptoms except capacity - where I could get mentally overloaded and adjusted accordingly.
Yeseterday I had a long very emotionally exhausting day handling an old family members affairs and knew I had reached my capacity but then daughter phoned with issues I felt compelled to hear and help with. After this overload I became dizzy by the time I got into bed I had the full room spinning couldn’t lie down symptoms that I had for the first 2 years after tbi. Was able to sleep some but every time I got up I could barely walk from the spinning. Now this morning I feel brain injured again for the first time in10 years. Heavy head eyes feel slow small glitches in speech if I move my head it feels like it does after you recover from a headache very slow. I am wondering if I had a bleed in my brain again or if this is just results of a super stressful day.

I think it is a result of a super stressful day. but go see doctor get a second opinion.

I was assaulted at work nearly three years ago. My treatments are covered by worker's compensation, however, to get what I need takes months of fighting with them about whether the issue at hand has anything to do with a TBI or is even related to the assault at all.

I've had nearly constant headaches since the assault, trouble with keeping my eyes open, light sensitivity, hyperacusis, difficulty reading or concentrating and yet the Independent Medical Evals I had two weeks ago says there is nothing wrong with me.

I've had doctors telling me it is a result of head trauma sustained during the assault and since I had none of these things before the assault, I believe them.

I don't know what to do. How do I make them listen? Any of the treatments recommended for me lose their efficacy as time goes by.

My husband was injured in a work accident. He hit his head & injured his neck. I knew something was really wrong with him, the psychiatrist sent him for some cognitive testing & they found the TBI!!!! It is a battle everyday for us both!!!!! There's a clinic in New Orleans where they've been treating my husband with hyperbaric oxygen therapy. He is in the last of his treatments. I'm not saying he's cured or how long this will help, but he's calmer. His memory is so so. Short term isn't good!!! But we'll be starting a new waiting game to see how it goes!!!! Good luck to you with hugs & prayers!!!!

I had a head injury 13 years ago, a football was shot towards my head and I was 7 years old at that time, it ruptured my right optic nerve and left me blind in that eye. I had some series of treatments done at different hospitals to recover vision in that eye but to no avail. I noticed that I have problems with my memory, I can’t seem to remember some past events and of recent I have familiar triggers that makes me not remember anything after the trigger occurs. The worst trigger that I can remember was when I finished bathing, on coming out of the bathroom I forgot who I was and where I was. I later recollected who and where I was but it was really scary and I would like to know if there’s anything I can do to prevent a recurrence of this memory lapse.

Does anyone know what effects being shot with a taser can have on a person's brain??

One case study in 2012 documented a 27-year old man who had one of the two Taser darts penetrate his skull (frontal lobe) and 2 mm into the brain itself. In his case, the long-term effects (6+ months) were anxiety, strong frontal headaches during physical activity, as well as unease with the number of people who were looking at his forehead, due to the scar from the operation. There were no signs of physical damage (apart from the skull penetration), though it should be noted that tests were done with a CT scanner, not an MRI. A CT is faster (used for emergency situations like this) but not nearly as precise. It would have been nice to see follow-up MRI's or fMRI's.

Of course, like any TBI, no two cases are the same. Age, health, prior neurological conditions, where the barbs hit, and a hundred other things can all affect the outcome. Target position is also a big factor; if you get zapped, fall and hit your head, that may cause more brain damage than the shock itself (though the brain has protections to minimize/negate damage from lighter impact, such as a simple fall to the ground). As the cited case sounds like it is one of the more extreme (with regards to the brain), it seems that the risk of brain injury from being tased is probably very low.


I wish you could shed some light about living with the person with a moderate TBI. My husband exhibits EVERY one of your list of 'OTHER POTENTIAL EFFECTS' since his minor stroke and major fall last June. The only one they left out was multiple suicide attempts. Meanwhile, I AM GOING CRAZY. I get side effects from antidepressants, tranquilizers, and I don't drink and will not smoke weed. I've been seeing two counselors a week since last November, but that doesn't change the patient. I'm not a nurse. I'm exhausted, overwhelmed, angry, and frustrated. "Support" groups where I listen to everyone else tell about their horrible lives only make me more desperate. No one mentions the devastation to the family after a TBI.

Every one of these stories is unique, and we all have only one life to live, therefore we just have to keep on searching every avenue there is for personal help and strategies to find it easier to cope with the looney times that are inevitable with a husband or wife that " isn't all there "... My husband drank Cheracol D at age 3 1/2, which sent him into a tailspin of afflictions - blindness (4 eye operations gave him back his sight) coma (not sure how long, I believe it was 3 months) limp on one side of his body, stiff on the other, 20% of his brain was burnt up from a 112 degree fever, Encephalitis, etc. etc. He has held menial jobs and half way decent ones, but is now, thankfully, retired. We both had extreme issues with jobs, and out and out mean spiritedness from co-workers, I having severe ADD since childhood. I've been a Christian since Aug 11th of 1970, it has kept me from taking drugs or drinking, which would have resulted in a bigger fiasco than it sometimes is. Only God can keep us sane through the trials and tribulations of a TBI, that is for sure and certain. So glad He saved me and keeps me through whatever the future holds. Someday we'll be in heaven, and all this will be long gone, not even to be remembered !! Jesus died that you could live.

I completely understand how you feel as I struggle with the same thing! My husband was injured in a car accident 30 years ago which left him in a coma for over a month. Once he left the hospital, he NEVER returned to a doctor for care. Our relationship has been falling apart because he refused to see a doctor about his increasing symptoms (nearly EVERY ONE on this list). I am beyond exhausted and stressed from constantly picking up the slack. Today, he FINALLY went to see someone and was told he may have fluid building up on his brain as a result of the accident and increasing with age. I can't help but wonder if things would have gotten so bad if he'd taken some responsibility for himself at some point all those years ago while I encouraged him to see a specialist.

I am sorry you have to go through that. As a brain aneurysm and stroke survivor, I can honestly say that he doesn’t want to be that way any more than you want him to be that way. I hope you can replace the anger and frustration with compassion, as this is a situation that we didn’t choose for ourselves and find it hard to be happy with ourselves as well.

Dear Mrs. Turner,
I just started reading Living With Brain Injury, a guide for families by Richard Senelick, MD & Karla Dougherty. This book may help if you don't already have it. Praying for you,
Sincerely, A Barnes

Hello everyone,

After reading this article and the comments below, I can clearly identify with all of the struggles that are being lamented about by all of you. 
My TBI happened at work, when a stack of serving trays (between 50-100) fell on my head, neck, back and shoulder-left side. I was told that all I had was a concussion, but as I have been researching about this condition, I realize that I was inappropriately diagnosed because the insurance company did not want to pay. I could go on about how I was lied to, misinformed, made to feel like a fraud, etc.; but that is just the icing on the cake.  The point is that I understand what it is like for you all and I am very glad that so many people are speaking out about this.
I can't see most of the time when I am trying to work, or even get through school.  I can't remember most things when I am stressed; almost like my brain shuts down.  I now have CVS (Computer Vision Syndrome) which is awful because it is always triggering some form of narcolepsy as well.  Now I am pregnant and I see how the symptoms of TBI don't go away or get easier without the right treatment. ( I was denied the proper medical treatment during the most crucial points of my time to heal). 
All people seemed to care about then was when I would be ready to go back to work, and when I could become my old self again. I can do some of the stuff that I used to do, but not without being extremely fatigued and aching to the point of temporary immobility.  Some days it really is mind over matter.  Meditating on scriptures, prayer, and peaceful environments help.  However, when certain stressful event occurs, it takes me a minute to recover.  Social interactions are a challenge as well.  I have little to no tolerance for things that used to be fairly easy for me to ignore.  I am better when I have time to myself to reflect on what I am doing and where I am going.  I tend to get lost sometimes, even with places that I am familiar with. When I take certain medications, I do not have this problem as much, but now that  I am pregnant I cannot medicate to help with the symptoms so that I can work.  The TBI has effected my personality as well.  As I stated earlier, I have little to no patience for certain things that I generally did not disturb my peace at all. 
If there is anyone who can recommend a treatment center that I can visit, please reach out! 
I am a firm believer in help form our Heavenly Father, but I also understand that practicality goes a long way. 
Thank you for sharing all of your experiences.  It has been truly helpful and encouraging to know that I am not alone and someone understands.  As a mother-to-be, I am more determined to get all of the help that I can so that my child can have the best life possible. 
Thank you for reading. 
Yah bless!

I am currently going through TBI recovery. Everything was downplayed because it was a Worker's Comp. I had two 6 foot by 5 foot cabinets, fully stocked fall on me. I don't remember it happening. I was rushed to the hospital where I also received 20 stitches. Thankfully, despite the WC not helping, my wonderful boss has helped me immensely. I still have horrible headaches, dizziness, nausea. I am on emotional rollercoaster and going through all kinds of the listed symptoms. However, my point is; my boss has paid for me to go to a specialty clinic called Turning Point Medical Center. Excellent, top notch treatment and staff. I live in CO Springs, and I am fortunate to have 2 clinics nearby. However, I know they treat people from all over the world. You can look into this specialty rehab. Hope this helps. Yah Bless you!

First I want to thank everyone who has posted here. Nobody knows the pure struggle of a TBI but those who have lived it.

3 1/2 years ago I was in a high-speed MVA where I went over my steering wheel and airbag and into my windshield. I wasn't diagnosed right away with a moderate TBI. Just another concussion that I figured would go away just like the others. Boy was I wrong.

The hell kicked in about one week after the accident and really changed my life. I was pretty much in bed for the first year barely living. I have made a pretty much miraculous recovery in my view and I am so thankful to the Lord for the progress I have made.

With that said, man, there can really be some hard days and even some weeks. I will be doing great with minimal problems and I start to feel like "Yeah, I got this and this may be over," only to have a quick turn around and start falling fast. It usually begins with stress from work. "stress," that would have been nothing to my former self. But I just can't handle any stress it seems. I can NEVER let it go and so I avoid it like the plague which is just not possible and not very healthy in its own right as I want to challenge myself to grow but at the same time I need to work to pay the bills and I know the stress can lead to a complete and total "shutdown." I wonder if anyone here is like that as well; I am sure there are plenty.

I guess I am looking for some affirmation or something on this one but the hardest part for me is this feeling of  "NOT CAPABLE OF STARTING," anything. I'm not lazy, I don't feel depressed. In contrast, I am actually a very motivated person and I come up with plans and ideas ALL the time about what I want to accomplish but 90% of the time I just can't figure out how to START. Most of the time after my wife gets me started (which is usually just a small step) I can take it from there...but may not complete it :) It's very hard to explain. It feels like my brain just literally will not move when it comes to starting something and it really hurts my confidence. I have been told it is Adynamia. Whatever it is, I will not quit until I beat it because out of everything that my TBI causes or has caused ( Crying, confusion, anxiety, exhaustion, etc..) this is the worst for me.

I pray for all of you and all of your families. There may be nothing harder than a TBI but just know through prayer and dedication you can live a happy and purposeful life. Good luck to all of you and God bless.


It feels like I found a twin!!! It was 3 yrs ago that I got injured playing hockey. I have been and still going through the same roller coaster. Plus I was identified with severely high level of mold in my body. It came from food !! I am at over 50 000$ of my pocket for therapies. After 12 specialists and many Neurofeedback therapy, it is only now that they identified TBI by using anRI and SPEC Brain Scan. I am now starting TBI recovery with a Military specialist. We are going back to the beginning and starting 30 min work followed by 1-hour full rest all day long! This is Stage 1 out of 5. I am being told this could take a very long time to get back to normal if it is possible. So the objective to to retrain the Brain and make new connections. There might be a TBI clinic in your country or state that could help you. I am determined to try everything to overcome this.

I still cannot work full time and I am worried that time is running out with my work. Nothing has worked so far...

What do you do for treatments?

Take care...


I am glad you found my post to be at the very least comforting knowing someone else feels like this. If you were playing hockey when you suffered the TBI then you're no wimp :) and sometimes that makes it harder in a way because the guy who nothing could harm is now harmed by things that just seem so small or would have seemed small. If you can even accurately remember the "guy," you used to be. I know my memory is a mixture of what I think I was like and some guy I might have made up :) but the hard truth is this; It does not matter WHO you were or who you THINK you were because all you have now is NOW and the quicker you can accept that and be ok with that the faster you heal. That mindset is what I can say has been a huge part of my healing. That and prayer. Lots and lots of prayer. In terms of physical treatments, there has been two interventions that have worked well for me, or as well as I could hope. One is treating my hormonal imbalances. With me, all of my hormones were JACKED. Damage to my pituitary. I get them checked and take replacements. It is not easy to find a Dr. who is good at it in truth as a lot of them just know the very basics of "hormone replacement," and TBI hormones may be much more in depth than that. The Second thing that I have done that has really made a huge difference is I eat a Ketogenic diet. I have for almost a year and a half. I believe it has lowered my brain inflammation and allowed me to either heal or compensate very well. It really has been great. Not easy at first but well worth it. Everyone is so different that I say these things with caution but they are worth looking into for sure. oh, one other thing I have done which is just something I did almost out of spite for for this damn TBI is that I constantly take like IQ test and logic test like the LSAT and crap like that. I have no idea if that helps but I can only imagine it does. There are really good days and there are really really bad days. I wish I had more help to give. I think attitude over anything is the best hope...that and time. I wish you well my friend.

I had a TBI from a motor vehicle accident as a young teen. I was comatose for two months in 1967. When I woke up, they thought I was healed. Other than my left ankle which was crushed in the MVA. I couldn't walk on it for a year. I couldn't get help for my cognitive deficits, because there wasn't any help like that back then. I was from Nebraska then. I live in Arizona now and love it. I couldn't get anyone to understand that my cognitive deficits were neurological, not mental. I finally met a Neurologist in Flagstaff in 1979 & he diagnosed me correctly and put me on the right medication and I met a Psychologist here in Az. in 1991, who helped me get connected to Vocational Rehab in Phoenix. And they helped me get thru my classes to be a Social Worker. I still have the short term memory deficit, and i have been working Temporary Social Work jobs until i find a place where i fit in with my disability. I hope this info. helps. The Neuroligist was so important so i could get diagnosed properly. Debbie Hunt

I know what your going through.
In January 2008 I was injured at work, I shattered the right side of my skull, broke my neck and had to have my nose reattached. I was left with a severe TBI. Not only was it server but it was left undiagnosed but untreated as well. For the last 11 years I’ve been doing battle on my own. It’s been only after changing doctors that I’ve been getting the proper treatment.

The days of constant pain the migraines as well as times of feeling hopeless. But there is hope. Your wife is standing by your side in all of this. For me to get past all the issues (I haven’t yet) has been a great deal of work. And a lot of faith and trust in God. There are new parts of my personality that I battle daily. Behaviors that were just not me. While I have the desire to do things and get them done. The mind say nope not today. If your wanting to know how to get motivated? There is a line in an old movie. One person is dealing with a monumental task and ask how am I going to do this? The other person ask him how do you eat a elephant? One bite at a time!
So what ever you do for the rest of your life just remember one bite at a time! Then you can accomplish anything.
What ever isn’t finished today can be finished tomorrow

Thank you Chris for your candid post. A TBI is something I would not wish upon my worst enemy. I’ve been fighting to be “ME” again since my TBI in January 2019. My husband, kids, friends, coworkers extended family can’t seem to understand what I’m going through. To look at me one would never guess my daily struggles. Everyone sees me as the person I use to be and expects me to act as such. However, as you and anyone who has incurred a TBI knows we are NOT the person we were before the accident, even though we look as if nothing has happened. Don’t you wish that you could wear a cast?? People always want to help people in a leg cast. No body seems to be capable to understand this type of injury. It’s the most frustrating, lonely, depressing , anxiety ridden part for me. Reading your post and many others for the first time makes me feel normal. At least as normal as a person with a TBI can feel. Thank you for that!


You are welcome and thank you for sharing as well. A TBI in the family is a huge learning process for all involved. I suggest that your husband and other relevant family members study up and even go to therapy or classes or whatever. My wife is in surgical residency so she had a decent idea of what was in store but even then this thing has been a beast to deal with. In terms of my other family, no concept whatsoever. That is why I suggest the classes or something because without specific TBI/medical knowledge it could be hard for some to even get close to understanding. But where there is a will there is a way. The funny thing is, I used to tell my wife that I was gonna wrap a bandage around my head just so others knew what was going on so I can absolutely understand why you wish you had a cast. I am not sure of the nature of your TBI but I know at the one year mark is where I made a lot of progress so I think you should have faith and hold out hope!! Just the fact that you are on here is a good sign that you won't take this TBI lying down. You need to have a dogged determination to not let it win! Above anything else, that will help most. Well maybe not above anything ( God, and family) :) I am so sorry to hear about your struggles and I agree, I wouldn't wish it upon my worst enemy either! It is NOT a death sentence though. I wish you all the best.


As far as your "Stress" goes, your Not alone. My post is a few spots below yours.
I cannot handle Stress or Conflict, especially at work since I am stuck there 9 hours
a day, 5 days a week. I know You are Not Lazy, Don't let it affect your confidence.
Even tho sometimes we don't feel tired, our Brains get Tired. Our injured Brains have
to work harder than normal, then we get "Neuro-fatigue"
God Bless

I suffered a 3-6 hour withdrawal seizure known as status epilepticus on Oct 1st of 2018 after I tried weaning off my “medication” (vimpat) and now have severe brain damage. It was a decision that I now regret for the rest of my life. So many critical memories that made me who I am are gone. It’s like trying to fill in the gaps or put the peices of the puzzle back together but you just can’t. However, if I smoke cannabis, it makes me think deep and remember my past clearly but only bits are retained. Adapting to a whole new world along with overcoming PTSD, amnesia, aphasia, mood swings, paranoia, severe depression... have been the biggest/scariest battle I’ve ever endured. In a way it’s as if I’d been dumbed down to the 4th grade or less and have been slowly relearning how to fit in again. I’m 22 years old btw. To anyone whose experienced a TBI or who may be diagnosed with FTD/AD or CTE my heart and prayers go out to you.

My boyfriend of 6 years was jumped and hit in the head with a bat. He refused to go in or call the police.. couple months later he started spiraling out of control. Not his usual self at all. The loving calm funny guy I knew is gone it seems. He is mean agitated and scared ALL the time. His paranoia is constant. He tried to commit suicide yesterday. He has not been diagnosed with anything yet except psychosis. But I am pushing for more brain scans thinking it had to do with him getting hit over the head. I feel your pain as I watch the person I love going through something similar. Has there been anything that has helped you?

I suffered a TBI 25 years ago during a motorcycle accident, my Helmet flew off and my head hit the pavement. Then 6 months after the accident I had a Nervous Breakdown,
which is when the Anxiety, Depression, and Panic started. I have been to various therapist and been on every SSRI there is, and they have only helped a little bit.
Now after 25 years of struggling with these horrible mental health issues I am TIRED,
Physically, Mentally, and Spiritually Worn Out. My Brain cannot handle Stress or
Conflicts anymore, and workplace Drama is unbearable. I am only 45 yrs old now, but I am trying to figure out how to retire early. I MUST Reduce my Stress level somehow !
I'm glad I found this website. Thank You in advance for any comments.

Hi, I suffered a TBI and broken bones in 2003.
I was a Kent Firefighter and before that, a Royal Marine.
I was in a coma 2 weeks where my life-support was terminated. When all hope had gone.
I then had a Brain Abscess in 2014!
I have seen double now for 16 years despite 3 eye operations at Moorfields Hospital.
My only advice I can possibly give you is to never ever stop. I'm lucky that I like the gym anyway. I love the effort required and I rise to it. Dealing with personal loss and frustration is a constant battle.
I have poor balance and right-sided issues too. I've learned to walk now 3 times!
I've thrown myself into my recovery and I simply won't stop!
Keep battling, we will win ☺

wow, thumbs up to you, motorcycle accident here, coma 10 days, and ive got pharesthesia on my right leg, sold my motorcycles since i cant take it anymore, lost my balance, mild vertigo 24/7, but i go to the gym sometimes and i bought a few gym equips here at home. i said that to myself too, i wont stop, keep pushing forward.

My wife suffered a TBI in December 2018. She is now in rehab after 2 weeks in a coma, and a few weeks recovery. Some days seem bleak, others I'm really upbeat, and reading some of the stories here make me feel much better.
My wife has a lot of difficulties as the moment, including eating by herself, talking, obeying commands, etc. She's not yet walking or anything and the physio team are just getting her to stand. I pray for better days and hope she makes a really good recovery so she can come home and be with me again.

My wife has an acquired brain injury from 2008; she is highly functioning but suffers from feelings of loss and low self esteem. She has always been a very social person and needs to interact daily with friends, she has many friends but they have the commitments of their lives to attend.

I am going to show this blog to Debbie in the later hours of this morning hopefully it can spark some interest or new ways for her to connect with some new friends by phone or blog.

Thank you