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BrainLine Talks with Dr. Jeffrey Kreutzer and Dr. Taryn Stejskal Dr. Jeffrey Kreutzer and Dr. Taryn Stejskal on What Happens to a Family After Brain Injury

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What happens to families after a person has a brain injury? That's a hard question to give a simple answer because it really depends on who is injured. Is it a child? In which case, if it's a child, especially a young child, it's certainly very, very, very devastating for the parents. A lot of times parents feel very guilty. Is it a spouse? Maybe a couple in their 30s or 40s who have children? Is it an elderly parent who has fallen and had a brain injury from the fall? So it's really hard to generalize too much. What we can say is that brain injury is catastrophic for most families. It causes changes in roles. People have a sense of great loss and a sense of confusion. And for a period of time, people feel very hopeful, but that hope is often left with a sense of fear that life will never be the same. Yeah, one thing that we like to say is that if you've seen one brain injury, you've seen one brain injury. But we have found that amongst the uniqueness of people that we work with, there are some universals. And when we work with families, we find that there's often a renegotiation of roles and relationships, and that's a really broad way of saying a lot of stuff changes. But what that means is, if the person who was providing for the family financially is injured, then things shift within that family system to figure out how that family is now going to support themselves. If the person that was caring for the children is injured, then things shift in a different way to figure out how do we care for these young children and the parent that was injured? And in particular, I've had the pleasure of working with a lot of adult children that in their 30s and 40s, that were out on their own living independent lives, and as a result of being injured, went back to live with their family members. And what I see is that there is a lot of renegotiation between parents and adult children about boundaries and roles and even things like curfew or going out with friends. Parents in situations, even with an adult child, are oftentimes fearful, at the very least anxious, that their child is going to get hurt again. And parents lose a lot of their independence, as does the adult child that returns home. So a lot of very complex dynamics, for sure. Some of the families that stand out for me that as-- having been a family that was having a difficult time, but they're doing much better now, again, the families for me are the ones that do all the heavy lifting. They live it, they're very courageous, they're very brave, they're willing to come in to my office or Jeff's office or our office and look at themselves and how they're contributing to whatever issues exist. Families that do best tend to be families that are able to talk with each other and not just talk about the weather or what they saw on TV, but talk about feelings and experiences and really share with one another and check in. In particular, I worked with a family where the fear of one person getting angry kept other family members from communicating with one another. And so when we were able to talk about some of those "hot-button issues" within the session and keep them calmer and keep some of the anger out of the room, Then those topics didn't become taboo anymore, and that family was able to communicate with each other in an honest way and learn how to deal with anger in a way that didn't stymie or block their communication in the future.

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On April 24, 2009, BrainLine had the opportunity to sit down with Dr. Kreutzer and Dr. Stejskal to talk about their work with people with traumatic brain injury and their families. Produced by Victoria Tilney McDonough and Brian King. Transcript of this video.

Jeffrey Kreutzer, PhDJeffrey Kreutzer, PhD is the Rosa Schwarz Cifu Professor of Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation at Virginia Commonwealth University, Medical College of Virginia Campus, and professor of Neurosurgery and Psychiatry. He is director of Virginia's Traumatic Brain Injury Model System.

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What about those who do not have family or family that is disfunctional from the beginning? And those caregivers that after years and years of caregiving and giving up their job their future really their life! Then what happens? Society is not going to be able to think that families will do it all. After 40 years of caregiving and advocateing for my 100% diableed vet husband - Iam burned out! And society and our country does not have an snswer. Many people with TBI end of in jail!! What are we doing to get services so this is not the final end for someone? So my point is, this all sounds great in the short run - but in the long run where will it go!!!! Carol Snider

Nov 6th, 2012 11:28pm

Dr. Kreutzer and Dr. Stejskal are my heroes...their tireless work with those of us, who still struggle with our new roles, following TBI-catastrophy, kee p us hopeful. Thank you, both.

Aug 23rd, 2012 9:00am


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